If they get loud, you get quieter. It makes them look irrational and gives you the moral high ground.
You force them to do the heavy lifting of explaining their logic, which is often where they will trip up. 3. Steelman Their Argument How to Win Every Argument
Instead of making statements (which can be attacked), ask questions (which must be defended). If they get loud, you get quieter
Most arguments are framed as Binary (A vs. B). You win by finding Option C. If they get loud
Once they agree that you understand them perfectly, they lower their guard. You then dismantle that "strong" version with a single, sharp counter-point. 4. Narrow the Scope
A "win" can also be refusing to participate in a circular, bad-faith argument.